Kari Tumminia
Author, Speaker, & CreatorEmpowering you to with direct communication, healthy boundaries, & radical self love. Specializing in codependency, attachment, & subtext-free relating.
Articles & Resources
Start here! Stories, musings, and resources designed to challenge and inspire you to create better, more authentic connections- with yourself and others.
No Bad Dates
No Bad Dates Book is full of entertaining personal stories, inspiring transformations, and powerful prompts to up level your dating game. In a world of terrible dating advice, this is the advice you actually need.
Work with Me
Classes, workshops, & powerful group programs for hands-on, life-changing learning. Click below to see the self-study courses and live programs available now.
What people are saying
My first appointment is, to this day, besides the birth of my two children and the first time I met my boyfriend in person, the most profound experience of my life. Cathartic is not even a strong enough word to describe how I began to feel day after day after spending this time with Kari. I was able to let go of fears that I was projecting onto my children that were from my own childhood. I was able to finally start making very strong, capable decisions regarding my own life, and I took back complete control of who I am, what I want and where my life was going to go.
I feel like women especially make a lot of mistakes in relationships. Relationship “gurus” that are out there give you ideas about when to text or when to call back or how often you should talk, etc.
Kari broke through all of that noise and went straight to the heart of who I was and how I have learned to love. She dealt with me as an individual instead of giving me some cookie cutter prescription on how to make a relationship work. I feel so clear and feel like I understand a lot about myself and my relationships-all of them, not just romantic ones, than I have my entire life.
I came out feeling good about myself and with clarity about what I want from a relationship and how to get it!
Working with Kari was a complete and total reset. I joined this program fresh out of a break up, along with years of terrible and abusive relationship baggage I had been dragging behind me, with the intention of understanding the past and learning to move forward. I received so much more.
Not only have I come to understand those relationship dynamics, I have also come to understand and view all other relationships in my life with a new perspective- namely, the relationship I have with myself, one I never really knew I was neglecting.
Kari’s week by week guidance and energy work never ceased to enlighten. She is the epitome of a true coach, guiding your understanding along the way but also teaching you HOW TO HEAL. Her lessons have stuck with me throughout the day to day and can be seen making changes in every area of my life. Forever grateful.
Good Girl / Nice Guy Rehab
The B Word, introduces you to the life-changing magic of the ultimate b-word: Boundaries.
Because, let’s face it…
It’s long overdue.
With this book, you’ll do so much more than revolutionize your understanding of boundaries… you’ll have a practical, no-nonsense guide to actually use them to change your life.
You can trade in the guilt, self-sabotage, resentment, and anger that have plagued you…
For a full-life upgrade to authentic, fulfilling relationships and a guilt-free, passion-driven life where you can finally be YOU… and be loved for it.
Your villain era. Main character energy. The full, unapologetic authority on your life. The “B” word.
Whatever you call it, you’ll be empowered to put an end to your good girl / nice guy era and usher in a new way of being happy, content, and loved for exactly who you are.
Latest on the Blog
Am I With the Right Person? | 3 Strategies to Know Now
Is it really possible to answer the question, "Am I with the right person?" Can you truly know? When I was deep into healing my relationship patterns, I spent a lot of time working through disastrous connections I thought had the potential to be real relationships....
3 Surprising Boundary Setting Mistakes You’re Probably Making
I still remember when I started to really learn how to set boundaries in relationships. Don't get me wrong, I knew what boundaries were, but there came a point in my journey when I knew I needed to focus on actually practicing boundary setting. You might be in a...
Waiting for Love? Why It’s the Dating Mistake Keeping You Single
I am always connected to an infinite source of love. I choose to remember, in every moment and experience, that I am always connected to the love from which I came. I embody divine, perfect love in everything that I do and in every experience that I have. I choose now to open any part of my connection to this love that I may closed down in the past. That was then and this is now. And now, I choose to fully embody love in every way.
